Thật ra sinh nhật năm nay mình muốn có ai đó cho mình một cái bình hoa lớn và đẹp để mình cắm hoa ly, hoặc một vài tờ bookmark xinh xinh, nhưng đương nhiên là không có.
Mình được anh Tuấn Anh mua cho 3 bao Captain Black, loại mới. Mình rất vui, vì đó là thứ mình dùng thường ngày.
Mình lại nghĩ lại, sinh nhật người yêu cũ mình cũng tặng cô ấy 3 bao thuốc, loại thuốc mà ngày còn yêu cô ấy vẫn bảo mình mua cho. Ngày đó mình thì đương nhiên vẫn càu nhàu về việc đừng có hút thuốc, nhưng, mua thì vẫn mua. Kèm theo 3 bao thuốc này, mình đã đặt một em gái trên Instagram vẽ lên vỏ 3 bao diêm hình 3 chú gấu We bare bears, mỗi hộp một chú, vì cô ấy thích 3 chú ấy.
Sau khi tặng, cô ấy cũng chẳng nói gì, mình cũng không dám chắc là cô ấy có dùng đến món quà đó hay không, bất kể mình có đặt nhiều tình cảm vào nó hay không.
Có thể rằng, bạn trai cô ấy đã chẳng cho cô ấy được hút thuốc nữa (điều mà mình muốn, nhưng cô ấy sẽ chẳng nghe), và rồi món quà đó sẽ được ném vào thùng rác. Có thể thôi, nhưng mình sẽ thật buồn.
Vì những hộp diêm và bao thuốc ấy, nó cũng như cái hộp laque mà năm 1993 cố nhạc sĩ Trịnh Công Sơn đã gửi cho cô Ngô Vũ Dao Ánh - người tình cũ. “Đựng luôn trong đó nỗi nhớ của anh và nếu cần Ánh bỏ cả nỗi nhớ của Ánh vào đó.”
Cả thế giới không biết ngày sinh thật của mình. Họ chúc mừng mình vào hôm qua hết cả.
Mình cũng ăn ở đâu có đến nỗi tồi, mà sao sinh nhật đến, không một người yêu cũ nào nhắn một cái tin, trong khi đó, tin nhắn lại đến từ hai người tình cũ ?
Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.
Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).
Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.
So what is changing?
Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.
Why are we doing this?
It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.
Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.
So what’s next?
Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.
Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.
Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.
Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.